Preparing to Write an obituary
Research has found that preparing to write an obituary can often prove to be therapeutic, not only for the individual, but for the family as well. By drafting the obituary in advance, the family can often begin to come to terms with the pending death and help begin to process the emotions that will ensue.
It can also be a sense of pride for the individual and their family to look back on the accomplishments of a life. Too often, obituaries are drafted by family members hastily in an effort to finalize all the arrangements. Although they have good intentions, the obituaries read as generic recaps of life, blending in with all the others appearing in the newspaper. Many times, the family leaves this task to the funeral director, who may never have known the individual and only had sketchy biographical information to go on.
Everyone's life story, no matter how seemingly simple, is worth telling. We find that families who initially think there is not much to say are surprised to see how much there is to tell about their loved one if given time to think about it. An obituary need not be overly long or verbose to be meaningful.
We encourage families to submit their own obituaries. If you do not wish to do so, we will submit obituaries to daily newspapers in New Hampshire. The family is responsible for placement and submission of out-of-state obituaries and notices. Nearly every daily newspaper in New Hampshire charges for placement of obituaries and paid death notices.
For those who wish to write their own obituaries and paid death notices, click on the following link: Guide to writing an obituary
The following are e-mail addresses for obituary departments of all daily New Hampshire newspapers along with the telephone number. We have also included e-mail addresses of several weekly papers and out of state newspapers as well. Once you submit an obituary, it is important to contact the newspaper to confirm receipt and make arrangements for payment.
Claremont Eagle Times: 603-543-3100 Concord Monitor: 603-224-5301 Fosters Daily Democrat: 603-742-4455 Keene Sentinel: 603-352-1234 Laconia Citizen: 603-524-3800 Nashua Telegraph: 603-594-6467 Portsmouth Herald: 603-436-1800 Union Leader: 603-668-4325 Valley News: 603-298-8711
Argus Champion: 603-763-9541 Bedford Bulletin: 603-472-6500 Bedford Journal: 603-673-3100 Berlin Daily Sun: 603-752-5858 Berlin Reporter: 603-752-1200 Bow Times: 603-472-6500 Carriage Town News: 603-642-4499 Carroll County Independence: 603-539-4111 Connecticut Valley Spectator: 603-298-7755 Coos County Democrat: 603-788-4939 Derry News: 603-437-7000 Dover Community News: 603-436-1800 Exeter Newsletter: 603-772-6000 Neighborhood News: 603-472-6500 Granite State News: 603-569-3126 Hampton Union: 603-772-6000 Hillsboro Messenger: 603-464-5588 Hollis/Brookline Journal: 603-673-3100 Hooksett Banner: 603-472-6500 Hudson/Litchfield News: 603-880-1516 Intertown Record: 603-927-4028 Laconia Daily Sun: 603-527-9299 Littleton Courier: 603-444-3927 Meredith News: 603-279-4516 Milford Cabinet: 603-673-3100 Monadnock Ledger: 603-924-7172 Pelham/Windham News: 603-880-1516 Peterborough Transcript: 603-924-3333 Record Enterprise: 603-536-1311 Rochester Times: 603-332-2300 Salem Observer: 603-893-4356 Suncook Valley Sun: 603-435-6291
Amherst Citizen: 603-672-9444 Hollis Times: 603-465-2051
Boston Globe (MA): 617-929-1500 Lowell Sun (MA): 978-458-7100 Lawrence Eagle Tribute (MA): 978-685-1000 Portland (ME) Press Herald: 800-779-0554 Caladonian Record (VT): 802-748-8121 New York Times: 800-238-4637
If you would like us to submit an obituary, you may email it to us at . Please specify which New Hampshire newspapers you would like us to submit the obituary to. Keep in mind that the editors of each paper have the final say as to when an obituary will run and how it will be worded. Charges for obituaries submitted will appear on your final statement of goods and services selected.
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